Well, You Made The Decision, Now What?

Awhile ago, maybe many years back, you made the decision to love, honor, and cherish this person you are with now.

The question is - Do You Make Good Decisions?

I am going to assume your answer is yes.

If so, then this is a relationship worth saving, is it not? You picked ‘em to be your life partner, didn’t ya.

And they obviously made a great decision in you right? I mean just look at ya! Fanfrickintastic, you are.

So, let’s validate that decision now, shall we…

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One of, if not THE most important decisions you will make in this life, is whom you choose to spend it with.

Hopefully you made the right decision and found someone as goofy and awesome as yourself. I know I did. Just see exhibit A above.

But before her, I had another wife with whom I made a very wrong decision. Or did I?.....

You see, the decision is only part of the equation. That decision could be the most debated one I have ever had. Except that it wasn’t. Either time.

I KNEW my first wife was the one. So I married her. It was a good decision.

The DECISION was just the first part of the equation. There were millions of decisions to come, each one leading to the eventual outcome of divorce for the first go round.

Why? I make good decisions, right? Well, sure. But only if those subsequent decisions enhance the initial one... Continually.

Simply put, are your decisions since then leading you toward a stronger relationship, or splitting you apart slowly?

I was not cognizant enough the first time around to see the consequences of all the decisions I was making. I MISSED the SIGNS.

I also did not have the tools necessary to heal the growing rifts. Once I realized what was happening and started to acquire the needed training to strengthen the relationship, it was already too late.

So, was my initial decision wrong? No. Because I made it with all the love in my heart, and with all the tools and training I had AT THAT TIME.

But those were limited. And I had much work to do.

After years of self improvement and learning, I found myself ready again for that great big decision.

And this time, it was also a very easy one.

I KNEW my amazing wife, Kimberly was the right choice. I mean, just look at her.

My loving loopy equal in so many ways.

I made the RIGHT DECISION. And now I KNOW that all my decisions from here on out must go to enhance the initial one.

Yes, sometimes this can take a lot of work. Especially if you were not aware for many years and just now learning new techniques, tools, and trainings of communication and connection.

The good news is, YOU MAKE GOOD DECISIONS!

Now let all your paths lead you back to the truth of that statement, heal wounds, hold space, be present, and remember, they made YOU their biggest decision too.

Now talk about that for a bit.


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